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Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships

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A guide to fostering more security, intimacy, and peace in our relationships, and in ourselves, by the author of Anxiously AttachedThe topic of attachment theory has never been hotter. The hashtag attachmentstyle has appeared more than a billion times on social media—but going beyond simple types to uncover how you developed your unique attachment patterns and why you relate to others as you do is where the deepest insights can be revealed. In this empathic and practical guide, therapist Jessica Baum sheds light on the unprocessed attachment wounds that cause us to live in survival mode—and offers a roadmap for building safe relationships that can become the foundation for true healing.You’ll discover what fulfilling, joyful, secure love feels like and how to cultivate it using simple techniques that will help you move from “fight or flight” mode to a place of trust, fulfillment, and true closeness with the people you care about most.Drawing on the brain science behind why we tend to repeat old, painful patterns, therapist Jessica Baum shows you how to move toward relationships that provide the deeper connection, safety, and trust we all long for, in every area of our lives. Read more

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  • Such a wonderful read
Format: Hardcover
Reading this book felt like sitting down with someone who truly understands the ache of wanting love to feel easier and the fear of losing yourself when you finally find it. Jessica Baum has a gift for weaving science, compassion, and lived experience into something deeply human. This book helped me see my patterns not as flaws but as survival strategies that once protected me. It reminded me that safety in love is not something we earn by being perfect. Its something we learn to create from within and share with others. Every chapter felt like a gentle mirror and a soft landing. SAFE is not just a guide for relationships, it is a guide back to yourself. Highly recommend!! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 1, 2025 by Andrea R.

  • Moved me in a profound way
Format: Hardcover
Certain sections of the book deeply moved me unexpectedly. I was a little taken back by how much of myself I recognized while reading. It had this beautiful ability to show me aspects of myself to the point of tears. That part was really healing for me. I also love the concept of The Wheel of Attachment. Overall I found the book very unique and refreshingly practical. The exercises helped me revisit parts of my history in a gentle but impactful way. I also really love the audio meditations that come with it. I highly recommend it! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 1, 2025 by MMaria

  • Finding Safety and Healing Through Jessica Baum’s Wisdom!
Format: Hardcover
After finding Anxiously Attached so insightful and validating, Safe feels like the perfect next step. Jessica Baum takes everything deeper, blending neuroscience, attachment theory, and compassion to help us move from understanding our patterns to truly healing them. It’s grounded, hopeful, and deeply human. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking to build real emotional safety within themselves and in their relationships! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2025 by Licette

  • A great self help book
Format: Hardcover
Finally — a book that goes beyond “labels” I think this book can help many people. I’ve always had questions about being boxed into an attachment “type.” SAFE helped me understand that we move around the Wheel of Attachment depending on stress and connection. It’s not fixed — it’s fluid. That alone made me feel so much more compassionate toward myself and my partner. This is the book I’ll be gifting many people. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2025 by alan i stevens

  • An Amazing Read !
Format: Hardcover
SAFE offers a clear and clinically grounded understanding of emotional safety as the basis for secure attachment. Jessica Baum translates attachment science and nervous system regulation into practical strategies. What stands out most is how authentic and human her guidance feels—accessible, applicable, and genuinely supportive. A valuable resource I will recommend to friends and clients. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2025 by jn smith

  • A life saver!
Format: Hardcover
I loved Anxiously Attached, so of course I went out and got SAFE. Jessica, you did it again! You helped me understand attachment in new ways, and I could feel your presence and compassion throughout every page. Thank you for this healing book ,truly fantastic!!
Reviewed in the United States on November 4, 2025 by Hansa

  • Beautifully written, deeply validating
Format: Hardcover
Jessica’s warmth shines through every page. The Wheel of Attachment visual is a great tool to help understand how dynamic attachment patterns can be, and how to make sense of how mine developed. Overall, this is a great read or listen!
Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2025 by Lana Seiler

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