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But Like Maybe Don't?: What Not to Do When Dating: An Illustrated Guide

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The creator of the Instagram sensation But Like Maybe takes us on an illustrated journey through her worst dating mistakes—a hilarious, hopeful guide to what you need to get wrong in love before you get it right. Arianna Margulis’s pen was set aflame when a boyfriend took her for a walk in Central Park. She was sneak-attack dumped because she “interfered with his meditation schedule.” After a few sobs, she found her way to a Sharpie, doodled the hilarity and the heartbreak, and But Like Maybe was born. As her cartoons became an Instagram cult hit, Arianna chronicled her misadventures through modern love via a crop-topped doppelganger, equal parts optimistic and anxious, who holds tight to the belief that bae is out there. Now, with 70 never-before-seen toons, her first book is a witty and winning primer on what not to do when dating. Inspired by all the ways Arianna’s gone wrong in her search for love, from planning matching outfits with her high school boyfriend without his knowledge to deplaning an aircraft because her crush texted, this charming and off-kilter anti-guide gently leads you to what matters: realizing that you’re already pretty awesome. With plenty of advice for recognizing and moving on when he’s just not that into you, Arianna shows how to not let a read receipt ruin your night, what to do when the slow fade commences, and how to flip the busy script on a guy. Dating can make the best of us a bit crazy. Keep this guide by your side so that the next time tequila urges you to text your ex, you can instead tell yourself . . . but like maybe don’t. Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Rodale Books


Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 4, 2020


Edition ‏ : ‎ Illustrated


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Print length ‏ : ‎ 176 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0593136608


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 07


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.1 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.29 x 0.83 x 8.29 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #389,655 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #899 in Love, Sex & Marriage Humor #1,547 in Love & Romance (Books) #2,517 in Self-Esteem (Books)


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Top Amazon Reviews


  • highly recommended read!
Format: Hardcover
I've been following Ariana for a while, and was dying to read this book when it came out. I'm a married millenial, but still found a lot of the content relatable, and it had me in stitches. The book is raw, funny, and real. As an artist as well, the last chapter was exactly the kick in the rear I needed to hear! Oh yeah, I am definitely writing this review under my husband's amazon account. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2020 by Brian B.

  • Funny and relatable
Format: Hardcover
@butlikemaybe’s Instagram cartoons come to life in her book! The book features cautionary tales of modern day dating do’s and don’ts, paired with illustrations guaranteed to make you laugh. An empowering and lighthearted read, that was way too easy to breeze through in one sitting. Can’t wait for another! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on March 12, 2020 by Rachel Rachel

  • loved every word!
Format: Kindle
This book is for every female out there! I laughed, related while cringing bc I’ve been ther but absolutely loved the brutal honesty and humor! We are normal.! We just need guidance. I’m way older and only wish I had this insight in my early 30’s it took me a while but I got there! Bravo! Great book! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on December 28, 2023 by Ben Torcivia

  • Endless Laughs and Relatable Stories
Format: Hardcover
I may be married now, BUT there isn’t anyone who can’t relate to this book. We’ve all cringed about things we’ve done while dating (or thinking we’re dating) someone. I love that she’s been so open and honest about her dating life, shows we aren’t always alone! Thanks for the endless laughs! I bought even more to send my friends who are in dating realm. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on March 12, 2020 by Kelsey G

  • Relatable, heartfelt, and funny book
Format: Hardcover
I've been following butlikemaybe for quite some time on Instagram and have always loved her content. That being said, I was very excited to buy her book when it was released. It didn't disappoint! It was relatable, heartfelt, and funny!! I read it all in one sitting and immediately passed it on to my roommate because I knew she'd enjoy it too. Buy this book! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2020 by Katherine Scott

  • Loved it
Format: Hardcover
I have followed butlikemaybe for a while, and as soon as I realized the book was coming out i knew that i had to acquire it ASAP which is kind of hard bc i live in south america and the shipping would take a while. Even though it costed extra every penny was worth it. Loved the book because its relatable in every sentence and i loved the more in depth look we get into her life trough this amazing doodles. If you like to laugh at life and yourself i recommed this book ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2020 by Amazon Customer

  • Great book but came slightly damaged
Format: Hardcover
Book was hilarious and a fun quick read. I’ll be leaving it on my coffee table for guests to pick at when over. I took off a star because Some of the pages were damaged and crinkled but still legible. All in all a great book and something every girl should read.
Reviewed in the United States on February 17, 2020 by Kindle Customer

  • I’m In Love!
Format: Hardcover
Three words, I’m in love! This book is amazing and I can not put it down!!! I have always been a fan of But Like Maybe and I was so excited when I heard she was writing a book and the book exceeded my expectation. I love how funny and relatable it is and it is just fantastic! I have recommended it to all my friends and I recommend it to all of you to read it!! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2020 by Samantha Brown

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