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Raising Good Humans: A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids

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“A wise and fresh approach to mindful parenting.” —Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance A kinder, more compassionate world starts with kind and compassionate kids. In Raising Good Humans, you’ll find powerful and practical strategies to break free from “reactive parenting” habits and raise kind, cooperative, and confident kids.Whether you’re running late for school, trying to get your child to eat their vegetables, or dealing with an epic meltdown in the checkout line at a grocery store—being a parent is hard work! And, as parents, many of us react in times of stress without thinking—often by yelling. But what if, instead of always reacting on autopilot, you could respond thoughtfully in those moments, keep your cool, and get from A to B on time and in one piece?With this book, you’ll find powerful mindfulness skills for calming your own stress response when difficult emotions arise. You’ll also discover strategies for cultivating respectful communication, effective conflict resolution, and reflective listening. In the process, you’ll learn to examine your own unhelpful patterns and ingrained reactions that reflect the generational habits shaped by your parents, so you can break the cycle and respond to your children in more skillful ways.When children experience a parent reacting with kindness and patience, they learn to act with kindness as well—thereby altering generational patterns for a kinder, more compassionate future. With this essential guide, you’ll see how changing your own “autopilot reactions” can create a lasting positive impact, not just for your kids, but for generations to come. An essential, must-read for all parents—now more than ever. “To raise the children we hope to raise, we have to learn to become the person we hoped to be…. This wonderful book will help you handle the ride.” —KJ Dell’Antonia, author of How to Be a Happier Parent “Hunter Clarke-Fields shares her wisdom and personal experience to help parents create peaceful families.” —Joanna Faber and Julie King, coauthors of How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ New Harbinger Publications


Publication date ‏ : ‎ December 1, 2019


Edition ‏ : ‎ 1st


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Print length ‏ : ‎ 184 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1684033888


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 81


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.46 x 9 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #3,328 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #10 in Family Conflict Resolution #10 in Conflict Management #11 in Popular Child Psychology


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  • A Compassionate Guide to Raising Kind and Confident Kids
Format: Paperback
Raising Good Humans is an incredibly insightful and practical guide for parents who want to nurture kindness, empathy, and emotional intelligence in their children. From start to finish, this book offers compassionate advice grounded in real-life experiences, making it both relatable and inspiring. What I love most about this book is how it balances gentle parenting principles with actionable strategies. The author writes with warmth and honesty, acknowledging the challenges and imperfections that come with raising kids, which instantly made me feel understood rather than judged. The chapters are filled with thoughtful reflections, helpful tips, and real-world examples that resonate deeply. This book goes beyond typical parenting advice by focusing on the heart of what it means to raise compassionate and resilient human beings. It emphasizes the importance of modeling behavior, practicing empathy, and creating a safe space for children to express their feelings. I found the sections on managing emotions—both for parents and children—particularly valuable, as they provide tools for handling tough situations without losing patience or connection. Another standout aspect is how accessible the writing is. Whether you’re a new parent or have years of experience, the book’s tone feels supportive and encouraging, never preachy. It’s also full of gentle reminders to practice self-care as a parent, which is so important but often overlooked. Overall, Raising Good Humans is a must-read for anyone who wants to raise kind, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. It’s a beautiful combination of heart and practical wisdom that has already made a positive impact on how I approach parenting. I highly recommend this book to all parents and caregivers looking for guidance with love and compassion at its core. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2025 by _pink_era

  • Practical Mindfulness Tips for Calmer, Kinder Parenting
Format: Paperback
Raising Good Humans is a thoughtful and deeply practical guide for anyone who wants to break free from reactive parenting patterns and raise kids with kindness and confidence. Hunter Clarke-Fields approaches parenting through the lens of mindfulness, which felt like a breath of fresh air compared to the usual advice that can often feel overwhelming or judgmental. What really stood out to me were the easy-to-understand mindfulness exercises and communication strategies that can be applied in everyday parenting moments, whether it’s dealing with toddler tantrums or teenage struggles. The book doesn’t just focus on kids; it also emphasizes caring for your own emotional well-being, which is crucial for staying patient and connected. I appreciated how the author breaks down common parenting challenges and offers clear, realistic tools that don’t require a complete lifestyle overhaul. This made it feel doable even for busy parents who want meaningful change without added stress. This book is ideal for parents who want to foster empathy and emotional intelligence in their children while also cultivating calm and resilience within themselves. It’s a gentle reminder that being mindful isn’t about being perfect but about showing up with more awareness and love every day. If you’re ready for a parenting approach that balances kindness with clear boundaries, Raising Good Humans is a powerful resource you won’t regret picking up. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on August 9, 2025 by Denisse Villar

  • Would recommend
Format: Paperback
Great for that 1-3 year old's parent. Love the advice and quality of the book's arrival
Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2026 by Mikayla sargent

  • Lead by example
Format: Kindle
This was very inspiring. It's not a quick fix, Magic button to getting your kids to be perfect. This is a book to give you tools of how to talk, listen, and show both us and our kids how to be good humans. I will definitely be implementing some of the practices mentioned in our daily lives.
Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2025 by Akess

  • Beneficial for any parent
Format: Kindle
Hunter does not preach, scold, judge, or push her ideas onto the reader. She offers a lot of advice with backed research as well as why her suggested way to handle/do things is more beneficial than other ways. I found her exercises to be quite useful and helpful. She offers a very practical approach to parenting. It's very inspiring and insightful. It does require you to dig deep, be vulnerable, and work hard to understand yourself and change ways that aren't working/beneficial for your children. This book helped me understand why I react the way I do and how to change my unhealthy learned habits from my childhood. I highly recommend this book for all parents. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2023 by Becca

  • Fantastic Strategies Fantastic Strategies
Format: Paperback
I thoroughly enjoyed this book and enjoyed doing the work and testing the suggested strategies. Being a new parent, I was desperately searching for a new way to parent my hyper-active 5 year-old son. I was tired of all the yelling and needed a better was to communicate with him effectively. And the biggest thing this book helped me realize is that, ITS OK. It's ok if things don't get done the parents way and taking a different path to achieve the goal is ok as well. Also, to simply calm down in heated moments, which it suggests practicing meditation (I've enjoyed this, it really works). I will say you do have to put in the work and it is a huge unlearning process. Unlearning how I was raised and brought up. And he talks about that in the book ,but I will continue to use these strategies because I feel more calm and the strategies are effective. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2024 Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2024 by LaChelda McCargo

  • A great book to read even if the baby is on the way
Format: Paperback
This is a great book to keep on hand, it’s a good reminder on how we as adults are mirrors to our children so you can reflect on this book at anytime.
Reviewed in the United States on December 15, 2025 by Chloe C.

  • Easy Read
Format: Paperback
Easy read, very insightful.
Reviewed in the United States on December 9, 2025 by Mallory The Consumer

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