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Which Side Are You On: A Novel

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Condition
New
Format
Hardcover
Dimensions
6.22 x 0.71 x 9.21 in
Weight
15.4 oz
Publisher
Catapult
Publication date
October 4, 2022
Language
English

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Finalist for the PEN/Hemingway Award for Debut Novel How can we live with integrity and pleasure in this world of police brutality and racism? An Asian American activist is challenged by his mother to face this question in this powerful—and funny—debut novel of generational change, a mother’s secret, and an activist’s coming-of-age Twenty-one-year-old Reed is fed up. Angry about the killing of a Black man by an Asian American NYPD officer, he wants to drop out of college and devote himself to the Black Lives Matter movement. But would that truly bring him closer to the moral life he seeks? In a series of intimate, charged conversations, his mother—once the leader of a Korean-Black coalition—demands that he rethink his outrage, and along with it, what it means to be an organizer, a student, an ally, an American, and a son. As Reed zips around his hometown of Los Angeles with his mother, searching and questioning, he faces a revelation that will change everything. Inspired by his family’s roots in activism, Ryan Lee Wong offers an extraordinary debut novel for readers of Anthony Veasna So, Rachel Kushner, and Michelle Zauner: a book that is as humorous as it is profound, a celebration of seeking a life that is both virtuous and fun, an ode to mothering and being mothered. Read more

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Publisher Catapult
Publication date October 4, 2022
Language English
Print length 192 pages
ISBN-10 1646221486
ISBN-13 86
Item Weight 15.4 ounces
Dimensions 6.22 x 0.71 x 9.21 inches

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Top Amazon Reviews


Coming of Age When Black Lives Matter
Format: Kindle
Reed, a 21-year-old Asian American, returns home to LA from NYC to tell his parents he's dropping out of college to engage in full time organizing for BLM. He's outraged by (the real life story of) Akai Gurley being shot by police officer Peter Liang. Reed's every sentence is an ideological statement (thankfully not a didactic one). But his mom is a Korean immigrant who led a Korean-Black coalition in the 1980s. She has lived experience; her son does not. What happens during Reed's visit? Read the book to find out! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 25, 2022 by Linda

Wonderful first novel !
Format: Kindle
This is the story of a young Asian-American man’a identity crisis after long idolizing his parents’ history as social activists. It perfectly captures the angst of the first generation to have privilege, in this case exacerbated by his desire to have a perfect moral code and to solve all the world’s problems. Ah, youth. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2023 by Susan S. Wieler

A coming of age story wrapped in a family narrative
Format: Kindle
The Black Lives Matter movement is the background for this novel which explores a young man’s activism, his learnings from his parents activism of the past, and gaining a greater understanding of his family’s history. His story is messy and honest and worth reading.
Reviewed in the United States on August 18, 2025 by Amazon Customer

One of my fav books
Format: Hardcover
Such an important book about interracial dynamics in LA and a love song to Los Angeles. While honoring the past activists who have done so much work after the 1992 la uprising, it also shows the messy side of activism today, which we need to acknowledge is a part of change. Also loved how the college student made me think of people I saw in college who were naive and thought they knew everything but then go out into the world and find they need to learn so much. Such a good book, I ate it up!! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on May 14, 2023 by Cal

Humorous but shallow
Format: Kindle
Quite humorous but simplistic. An Asian-American activist gets fired up when an Asian NYC cop guns down a young Black kid. He wants to drop out of Columbia to become a full time activist and join the front lines of Black Lives Matter. After sharing his plans with his Mom and Dad, he slowly learns a lot about their activist path. And he begins to realize that activism may be be more than just making signs and blocking traffic. The writing is not bad, moves the story along but the situations are trite and stereotypically expressed. The humor sprinkled through the pages keeps the reader attached and we feel a desire to have things work out for young Reed. A more flushed out drama could have moved this from average to very good, but having said that, I still recommend it as worthy of your time. Thanks to NetGalley and Catapult for a DRC. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on December 22, 2022 by Read-A-Lot

Funny, dead-serious, and insightful
Format: Audiobook
This first novel is a funny and insightful take on a heavy topic: police brutality and Black-Asian community relations. Wong draws on real-world events to weave a narrative that draws attention to racial injustice while also contextualizing and complicating our understanding of the issues tearing at us today. The book is also a coming of political age story of a young man trying to make sense of a world that appears neither logical nor fair. Reed, the protagonist, draws on his sharp and witty mother and his kindly and wise father for intergenerational lessons that challenge his woke language yet keep him true to his quest for a more humane and socially just world. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on December 5, 2022 by Greg

Basic. Avoid.
Format: Hardcover
The writing is embarrassing. Like, how did this get out of the workshop bad. Overall what grates throughout is that Lee Wong is trying to have his cake and eat it too - he pokes fun at the rigidly ideological critique of systemic violence but also wants to score points for critiques of systemic violence. I’m truly mystified by all the praise for this schlock. There’s heaps of better books about pleasure and inter generational activism and even more about many varieties East Asian participation in the American experiment. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 18, 2022 by Pleased to meet you

Change yourself and change the world
Format: Hardcover
A story about family and friendship and trying to change the world. Ryan Lee Wong has an observant eye and beautifully depicts Los Angeles and all its underbellies. A coming of age tale of realization and understanding. “At least you know I tried right? I tried to give you what I didn’t have .”
Reviewed in the United States on April 8, 2023 by Mary P. Camarillo
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