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Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and into Your Life – The New York Times Bestselling Tough-Love Self-Help Guide to Stop Self-Sabotage and Boost Resilience (Unfu*k Yourself series, 1)

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Condition
Used - Good
Dimensions
5.3 x 0.8 x 8.2 in
Weight
2.31 lb
Publisher
HarperOne
Publication date
August 1, 2017
Language
English
Print length
224 pages

Description

Instant New York Times bestseller. Over two million copies sold!CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR ACTIONS, CHANGE YOUR FUKING LIFE — A BS-free guide to building better habits, boosting resilience, breaking free from self-doubt, and becoming the fiercest version of yourselfA refreshing, no-nonsense, self- empowerment guide that offers an honest, crystal clear, tough-love approach to help you stop the self-sabotage and move past self-imposed limitations. True happiness and success come when you are willing to take that next step—and this is your final push. With all the sht going on in the world today, it is time to become the toughest, most tenacious version of yourself.Are you tired of feeling fuked up? Want to make a change but don’t know where to start? Tried “trusting the process” and it led to the same self-destructive patterns and procrastination? If so, Gary John Bishop has the answer and the kick in the a that you need to maximize your potential and grasp your personal greatness. Whether you seek more secure relationships, are ready for a new beginning, or just need the motivation, courage, and confidence to learn from past mistakes and face uncertainty with adversity for the future: this relatable, life-changing handbook is waiting for you.In Unfuk Yourself, Bishop, your new, tough-as-nails voice of reason, leads you through a series of seven assertions:I am willing.I am wired to win.I got this.I embrace the uncertainty.I am not my thoughts; I am what I do.I am relentless.I expect nothing and accept everything.It isn't other people that are standing in your way, it isn't even your circumstances that are blocking your ability to thrive, it's yourself and the cycle of negative self-talk you keep telling yourself. Often, we know exactly what we need to hear, but simply need to hear it from someone else. Allow this book to be your biggest cheerleader, your small daily reminder to keep going, and the force that lifts that weight of your shoulders. After all, it is going to be great.Lead the life you were meant to have—Unfuk Yourself. Read more

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Publisher HarperOne
Publication date August 1, 2017
Language English
Print length 224 pages
ISBN-10 0062803832
ISBN-13 32
Item Weight 2.31 pounds
Reading age 5 years and up

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Top Amazon Reviews


Confirmation
Format: Kindle
Honestly, this is the first self-help book I’ve ever read from beginning to end, and I’m so glad I stuck with it. The desire to finish kept me going, but what really surprised me was how often I found myself reading thoughts I’d already been having. It felt like the book was putting words to things I’d been trying to tell myself all along. More than anything, it reminded me that my mindset is catching up—I just have to commit to stopping old habits and consistently restarting the ones that serve me. I’ve already used some of these same principles to improve my professional life, and now it’s time to apply that same discipline to my physical health. I know I can do it. This was a great read—direct, practical, and written in a way that felt personal enough to actually inspire change instead of just talking about it. I’m so glad I added it to my TBR (my very first self-help book on the list!), and I’m even happier that I finished it. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on July 19, 2026 by ashley evans

A Wake-Up Call You Need
Format: Kindle
I absolutely loved this book. It's a big wake-up call that says the things you need to hear to stop making excuses and start creating the life you want. It's straightforward, blunt, and sometimes a little harsh, but that's exactly what makes it so effective. It was packed with great quotes and powerful reminders, and I enjoyed every minute of it. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 22, 2026 by LaTisha

Quality and cheap price
Bought this book for my adopted son as my step daughter states it helped her navigate life during a difficult time.
Reviewed in the United States on August 27, 2026 by jaime connors

an Important book for non Spiritual People.
Format: Audiobook
This book is great... I didn't give it a perfect score because it's no different than any other self help or spiritual book... everything contained here is contained in any Buddhist book , the power of Now, etc... But that being said, for those of you that find yourselves procrastinating, or just being unhappy with your life situation this is almost a perfect book ... short and sweet... you really already have ALL the information you need to be happy and live a healthy life... we JUST DON't do it... this guy really motivates you and makes a case for the cost you pay if you don't change your behavior... I also recommend Russell Brands "RECOVERY' yes, know, you are not an addict... or you don't think you are, but what are habits than just little addictions to patterns... this book is brilliant in the way it smacks you in the head and really makes you want to grab a piece of pen and paper and start working.! of course, everything is easier said than done... I recommend the audiobook so you can maybe do a repeat of the book... since it's short... but I know that you will get dismotivated after reading ... that's why you read it in the first place... so his voice needs to stay clear on your mind. But a good read, all the methods work, they have worked for millennia... We know what we need... we just need the discipline to apply it. this book makes great points on why and how to develop discipline... ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2018 by Deena Ensworth

Good book
Format: Hardcover
Very good Red love this
Reviewed in the United States on September 20, 2026 by MarQuita Malone

inspirational
Format: Kindle
Love this. Truly hit all the right spots of contention in my life. I think we all share most of the these if not all and it would every beneficial for all to read
Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2026 by amanda

A Muddy Intro to Many Ideas
Format: Hardcover
I am going to dare to be critical whilst still awarding a 3-star review. In summary, this is a great introduction to an assortment of philosophical ideals: some that have been around since the ancient Greeks and some being developed in the modern age: existentialism, stoicism, epistemology, ontology, etc. For those not versed in philosophy, many of these ideas may be new and interesting. Unfortunately, Gary doesn't reference some of these philosophies for your further reading but this is understandable as his focus is on coaching you to overcome yourself not to be a literary scholar. For little more than ~$10 and a few hours of reading, give it a shot and see if you learn something. As much as I am going to be critical, the book has its utility and will be useful to some of its readers, so who am I to tell you not to read it? You should read everything and challenge it--the pursuit of knowledge means to never stop engaging in the dialogue. One of my biggest gripes with this text is that Gary seems to contradict himself throughout it and complicates his overall message. He is adamant that this is not another self-help book that focuses on positive thinking; however, it is one of the first concepts he introduces. In sum, he teaches that assertive language affects emotions, feelings, and ultimately decision making and that one should engage in healthy inner dialogue. He also later bashes the quote, "Change your thoughts, change your life," calling it bullsh*t. Where he is attempting to go with this is to say that actions speak louder than words and no matter what you think, unless you take action, your life will not change. Okay, this is fine but he took a six-word quote and said it was invalid over the course of ~200 pages. The problem is that he views ideas singularly and criticizes them in isolation; however, if you took any one of his chapters singularly, it would contradict his overall philosophy. For instance, positive self-talk is useless without his later instructions on asserting and acting on them. Overall, I think the overt criticism of other ideas throughout the text followed up with very similar approaches hurt the message Gary was trying to send to his readers. You may find yourself confused or frustrated without having a deeper understanding of some of the philosophies on which Gary touches. In the end, Gary pulls it together but it may take a while to see the differences he is attempting to portray--the book could have been more concise and focused. Another gripe would be that on page 21 he tells you that if you are easily offended not to read his book and to give it away immediately. The very next page he claims, "I have designed this book to be as accessible and useful to as many people as possible." Really, is anyone proof-reading this thing? Look, if you're going to be a self-help coach how can you tell the people who may need to hear your words the most, to shove off? This move was very Nietzsche-esque in that he believed he was a writer for everyone and yet no one at the same time. But Nietzsche was writing critical philosophy and engaging his own ideas--he wasn't writing it for them and that's why he didn't care if anyone read what he wrote. Gary, is writing for the people who he believes need help--that is his profession. So why scare away people who need the help? TLDR: This book is a bit all over the place but does come together in a way that you will be able to understand by the end. If you are not well versed in philosophy and psychology, give it a go as it won't cost you an arm and a leg or too much of your time. Gary, I think you're doing good work but would encourage you to collaborate with some colleagues on condensing your thesis. I would also advise you to encourage your readers/clients while staying true to your no-bullsh*t approach as these do not have to be mutually exclusive. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2018 by Christian

Must read
Format: Kindle
Great book. I found it enlightening amd impressive. Really calls you out on your stuff and puts a new mindset into perspective
Reviewed in the United States on June 29, 2026 by jolisha
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