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The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

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Over 5 Million Copies Sold! 1 New York Times Bestseller 1 Sunday Times Bestseller 1 Amazon Bestseller 1 Audible Bestseller A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words? If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it. In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life. Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve. Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way. Learn how to: Stop wasting energy on things you can't control Stop comparing yourself to other peopleBreak free from fear and self-doubtRelease the grip of people's expectationsBuild the best friendships of your lifeCreate the love you deservePursue what truly matters to you with confidenceBuild resilience against everyday stressors and distractionsDefine your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment. . . and so much more. The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential. Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. The cover has been updated to include the name of co-author Sawyer Robbins. Customers may receive either version of the cover at random. Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Hay House LLC


Publication date ‏ : ‎ December 24, 2024


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Print length ‏ : ‎ 336 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1401971369


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 66


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.25 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.32 x 1.16 x 9.34 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #1 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #1 in Motivational Management & Leadership #1 in Business Motivation & Self-Improvement (Books) #1 in Success Self-Help


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    • Good advice!
Format: Audible Audiobook
I have to admit, I had never heard of this author before though I am definitely not new to self help books! I guess I just read so many in my 30's to 60's that I haven't kept up. I did like this though and recommended it to family and friends. It is an easy listen and while it took me awhile to get accustomed to her voice, I did like the professional she interviewed and thought there was a lot there. Dealing with the present is really about all most of us want or have time for, not a replay of all past hurts and wounds. Keep it simple stupid is still a good theory and the Let them theory goes well with that advice! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 17, 2025 by JoanF
    • (SHOUTING) LET THEM!! Insert eye roll at the drama queens
Format: Hardcover
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Honestly, I wasn’t sure what to expect from "The Let Them Theory," but I think the author secretly snuck into my brain and then decided to write a book about it. Every page feels like a gentle slap on the back, telling me to chill out and let people be. My friends are now worried I’ve become a zen master overnight—mainly because I’ve started nodding sagely every time someone complains. If you’ve ever wanted a manual on how to mind your own business without turning into a hermit, this book is your new best friend. Warning: reading it may cause spontaneous eye-rolls at drama queens and an uncontrollable urge to shout “Let them!” at random intervals. Five stars for making me laugh, think, and finally give the universe some peace—and maybe a little space for everyone to be weird. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 14, 2025 by Alicia G.
    • A worthy self-help book
Format: Audible Audiobook
Not a fan of self-help books, I debated buying one which would surely be a waste of money and time again. However, after hearing much buzz about this one being on every bestseller list and a top book club pick, I gave in. Maybe it would be worthy of my time. It mostly was, and now I find myself saying about different situations, “Let them.” That mind set does help me keep from wasting energy on what I can’t control, comparing myself to other people, and overthinking. The chapters I liked best helped me to understand how friendship groups change through the years, and if I feel left out, it could be my fault. Since I’m married, I mostly ignored the chapters on how to improve one’s dating life. The book is divided into two parts: Let Them and Let Me. I found value in both, surprising myself by reading to the very end. Parts of the book are repetitive, but maybe when we are learning new ways to think or act, redundancy will help it sink in. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on May 26, 2025 by seniorchoice
    • The Let Them Theory by Amy Weatherly – A Simple, Powerful Mindset Shift
Format: Hardcover
The Let Them Theory isn’t your typical self-help book—and that’s exactly why it works. Amy Weatherly takes a simple concept—“let them”—and turns it into a transformative way to handle relationships, boundaries, and inner peace. What stood out: • Practical wisdom, not preachy advice: The central idea is this: if people want to judge you, exclude you, or behave in a way that doesn’t align with your values… let them. You stop chasing, over-explaining, or managing everyone else’s expectations. It sounds basic, but Weatherly explains it in such a freeing, empowering way that it really sinks in. • Relatable tone: Her writing is like hearing a friend talk you down from a spiral. It’s warm, conversational, and rooted in real-life examples. No fluff, no jargon. • Permission to stop over-functioning: This book gives you mental clarity when you’re stuck trying to “fix” relationships or gain approval from people who aren’t really for you. It’s a great reminder that peace is better than control. Who it’s for: If you’re a people-pleaser, struggle with boundaries, or are constantly second-guessing yourself in relationships (romantic, family, work, or friendships), this book will speak to you. It’s a quick, encouraging read—but one that stays with you. Bottom line: The Let Them Theory is one of those books that feels like a breath of fresh air. It’s not about giving up—it’s about letting go of what you were never meant to carry. Highly recommend if you’re ready for a mindset shift that actually lasts. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on May 27, 2025 by Jason Ramsey
    • This book is a game-changer!
Format: Hardcover
This book is absolutely amazing—hands down one of the most impactful reads I’ve picked up in a long time! I devoured it over a weekend and immediately grabbed the audiobook so I could listen to it again during my commute. That’s how much it resonated with me. I wouldn’t call this a typical self-help book. To me, it’s more of a life hack manual—a guide to navigating relationships and boundaries with clarity and confidence. While some of the concepts might seem intuitive at first glance, the way Mel Robbins presents them is eye-opening. Her insights helped me see both personal and professional relationships in a completely new light. The “Let Them” mindset is simple but powerful. It’s about letting people be who they are and focusing on what you can control—your own reactions, energy, and peace. It’s a shift that feels both freeing and empowering. If you’re someone who struggles with people-pleasing, overthinking, or just wants to feel more grounded in your day-to-day interactions, this book is a game-changer. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 2, 2025 by Crafty1
    • Empowering and Freeing – A Must-Read!
Format: Hardcover
Mel Robbins’ Let Them book is an absolute game changer! Her message is simple but incredibly powerful—learning to let people do what they’re going to do instead of trying to control, fix, or overthink everything. It’s a refreshing and much-needed reminder to stop wasting energy on things outside of our control and start focusing on our own peace and growth. The way Mel breaks down the “Let Them” mindset is honest, relatable, and full of real-life examples that hit home. I found myself highlighting passage after passage—it’s that good. Since reading it, I’ve felt more confident setting boundaries, less anxious about what others think, and far more grounded in my decisions. If you're someone who overthinks, people-pleases, or struggles with control, this book is for you. It’s one of those rare reads that sticks with you long after you finish the last page. Highly recommend! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 1, 2025 by Brandy Tilo

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