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The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

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Over 7 Million Copies Sold! 1 New York Times Bestseller 1 Sunday Times Bestseller 1 Amazon Bestseller 1 Audible Bestseller A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words? If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it. In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life. Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve. Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way. Learn how to: Stop wasting energy on things you can't control Stop comparing yourself to other peopleBreak free from fear and self-doubtRelease the grip of people's expectationsBuild the best friendships of your lifeCreate the love you deservePursue what truly matters to you with confidenceBuild resilience against everyday stressors and distractionsDefine your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment. . . and so much more. The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential. Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. The cover has been updated to include the name of co-author Sawyer Robbins. Customers may receive either version of the cover at random. Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Hay House LLC


Publication date ‏ : ‎ December 24, 2024


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Print length ‏ : ‎ 336 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1401971369


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 66


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.25 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.31 x 1.1 x 9.31 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #3 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #1 in Motivational Management & Leadership #1 in Business Motivation & Self-Improvement (Books) #1 in Success Self-Help


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    • Simple Concept, Profound Impact!
Format: Hardcover
This book is a true gem! The Let Them Theory offers a refreshing and empowering perspective on how to handle relationships, boundaries, and personal peace. The concept is simple—just “let them”—but the way it’s explained really hits home and changes how you respond to others’ behavior. It’s an easy, quick read, but it leaves a lasting impression. I’ve already noticed a difference in how calm and confident I feel when I stop trying to control things outside my power. If you’re looking for something that helps you release stress and embrace emotional freedom, this is the one. Highly recommend it to anyone on a journey of growth or self-discovery! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2025 by Aida Lopez
    • Simple idea that actually feels freeing
Format: Hardcover
This book lays out the “let them” idea in a really easy, relatable way. It is short, straightforward, and gives you a different way to look at situations you usually stress over. The message is simple, but it actually feels freeing when you start applying it. Not everything in here is new, but the perspective is refreshing and a good reminder to stop trying to control what you can’t. A quick read that sticks with you. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 28, 2025 by Michael Collins
    • Too wordy!
Format: Hardcover
Great book although Mel is a bit too wordy. An example of her wordiness is when she shares examples, it seems like the list of examples goes on and on. In my opinion, readers are intelligent enough to understand from a few examples not a laundry list full of them The author also shares this so-called theory and repeats it in a cookie-cutter style. For example, she explains how to use it regarding family issues, etc, and then breaks it down for every other issue the same way and cadence in every chapter. Another thing she pounds so much in the book is the appeal to, "backed by neuroscience" and "backed by research". I appreciate that she researched the information for the book but it got annoying. Maybe Mel just added extra words to appear like she wrote over 300 pages excluding the bibliography. The book could still have made its point in 125 pages. Overall, The Let Them Theory is a resourceful self-help book and it's worth the investment. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 23, 2025 by Albert Icestein
    • Let Them is a Great Reminder of What You Already Know
Format: Hardcover
Apart from being full of excellent, freeing advice, this book felt like one big therapy session—in the best way! Mel Robbins gives you tools you may already know but delivers them in a way that feels like permission to truly be yourself. Everything made sense and felt actionable, practical, and doable in everyday life. I even shared it with my daughter before I’d finished reading; she tried to snag it early! The chapter on friendships especially resonated with her. Let Them is a refreshing reminder that it’s okay to let things go, focus on what you can control, and manage your own feelings instead of trying to manage everyone else’s. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 14, 2025 by Rée A.
    • A game changer for sure
Format: Audiobook
This book was a great reminder I really needed a long time ago. Sometimes some really messed up things happen in ones life. Betrayal from so called "friends", getting laid off, a relationship not working out, bullying, I can go on and on. People will ultimately do what they want, and we don't have control over any of their behaviors. We can control our own though. For anyone who has held onto resentment, anger, frustrations, etc. this is a fantastic book for you. Mel is right in that people can be annoying, and Lord knows I've gotten irritated countless times living in NYC. Has it helped me realize my own control issues? Absolutely. Great insights and a great listen on Audible or whatever format you like. Highly recommended ! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 25, 2025 by Umer Mahmood
    • NON FICTION IS A GREAT WAY TO LISTEN WHILE YOU DRIVE! TRY AUDIBLE!
Format: Audiobook
LET THEM AUDIBLE NON-FICTION INSPIRATIONAL BOOK ON LISTENING TO MEL ROBBINS MOTIVATIONAL ADVICE MAKES MY DRIVING DESTINATIONS ENJOYABLE! I had something like 24 AUDIBLE CREDITS that have built up because I'm a visual person that loves to read. I've had the membership for over ten years and I only like certain NON FICTION SELF DEVELOPMENT books which I listen to Memoirs, Self help, but never fiction books, because my imagination is more vivid when I read. I always either listen to my podcasts on Spotify or NON-FICTION on AUDIBLE which is owned by Amazon. I can't drive anywhere without my Podcasts or very few Non-Fiction Titles that interest me, but I have had those credits and I love MEL ROBBINS so I decided to try it on AUDIBLE. My friends who read that listen to fiction on AUDIO understood why I bought the same fictional title and I had already loved reading it on my Kindle. It was a favorite lifetime reading experience and I own many of the same KINDLE & AUDIBLE versions but I noticed that fiction book that it was one of the most beautifully written books that when I went to listen to it, I quickly gave up because it was bland. I have been told by more frequent readers like myself who listen to the Audio version and recommend it to me on Audio since they enjoyed it better have said listening to fiction is a skill that you have to develop, so I stick to NON FICTION and I need to listen to something while I'm driving so I buy the Kindle Version & the AUDIBLE and it makes my driving to destinations shorter.v That's why I have Spotify because there's two favorite podcasts but I pay extra for no commercials and now my top favorite podcast has commercials which I 'm considering cancelling because the reason I pay extra is because the commercials drive me crazy so now Spotify says it's up to the podcast. The reason I've been a member since 2018, is because it is synced to the Bluetooth, in my car and the podcasts don't require Cell towers so you don't get the buffering that I do with Audible in areas where there aren't Cell towers which we call them dead zones. I'm recommending this AUDIBLE PURCHASE called, "LET THEM," because MEL ROBBINS is a new motivational author to me, and she wrote the book which she has some fascinating inspirational content, that I have learned some ideas to improve my life. She is a fantastic narrator in her soothing voice. One nice thing about AUDIBLE is they are extremely friendly and if you don't like the AUDIO BOOK Listening experience, you can return it, which you can't do with the KINDLE Books. so I have had to return something only twice in fifteen years, since I usually love what I purchase. I do recommend this book on AUDIBLE to listen to or if you don't have a membership they used to have a free trial and a free book if you're a new member. But I'm not sure, but however medium you choose this is a FAVORITE and it's a bestseller that I can promise you will love it, as well. It has a very high rating of tens of thousands of five star ratings which is even more evident that it's a Spectacular choice! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on July 24, 2025 by kmurph31
    • Yep, it’s pretty good. Not for everyone, but give it a read
Format: Hardcover
Gave this to someone who was having a rough time and they began reading it slowly a few pages at a time over the first week. They got so into it. They begin reading chapter by chapter 9 by night. Always keep in mind some things work for you that won’t work for others. Recommend giving this book a try. It’s got some pretty good advice inside. Again not perfect for everyone because situations are different but Get a used one. They’re just as good as new and I believe it will open your eyes. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 25, 2025 by db

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