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The Importance of Being Little: What Young Children Really Need from Grownups

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“Christakis . . . expertly weaves academic research, personal experience and anecdotal evidence into her book . . . a bracing and convincing case that early education has reached a point of crisis . . . her book is a rare thing: a serious work of research that also happens to be well-written and personal . . . engaging and important.” --Washington Post "What kids need from grown-ups (but aren't getting)...an impassioned plea for educators and parents to put down the worksheets and flash cards, ditch the tired craft projects (yes, you, Thanksgiving Handprint Turkey) and exotic vocabulary lessons, and double-down on one, simple word: play." --NPR The New York Times bestseller that provides a bold challenge to the conventional wisdom about early childhood, with a pragmatic program to encourage parents and teachers to rethink how and where young children learn best by taking the child’s eye view of the learning environment To a four-year-old watching bulldozers at a construction site or chasing butterflies in flight, the world is awash with promise. Little children come into the world hardwired to learn in virtually any setting and about any matter. Yet in today’s preschool and kindergarten classrooms, learning has been reduced to scripted lessons and suspect metrics that too often undervalue a child’s intelligence while overtaxing the child’s growing brain. These mismatched expectations wreak havoc on the family: parents fear that if they choose the “wrong” program, their child won’t get into the “right” college. But Yale early childhood expert Erika Christakis says our fears are wildly misplaced. Our anxiety about preparing and safeguarding our children’s future seems to have reached a fever pitch at a time when, ironically, science gives us more certainty than ever before that young children are exceptionally strong thinkers. In her pathbreaking book, Christakis explains what it’s like to be a young child in America today, in a world designed by and for adults, where we have confused schooling with learning. She offers real-life solutions to real-life issues, with nuance and direction that takes us far beyond the usual prescriptions for fewer tests, more play. She looks at children’s use of language, their artistic expressions, the way their imaginations grow, and how they build deep emotional bonds to stretch the boundaries of their small worlds. Rather than clutter their worlds with more and more stuff, sometimes the wisest course for us is to learn how to get out of their way. Christakis’s message is energizing and reassuring: young children are inherently powerful, and they (and their parents) will flourish when we learn new ways of restoring the vital early learning environment to one that is best suited to the littlest learners. This bold and pragmatic challenge to the conventional wisdom peels back the mystery of childhood, revealing a place that’s rich with possibility. Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Penguin Books


Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 7, 2017


Edition ‏ : ‎ Reprint


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Print length ‏ : ‎ 400 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 81


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 11.2 ounces


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.51 x 0.83 x 8.43 inches


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  • Excellent resource for parents and teachers
Format: Paperback
As a parent and teacher, I highly recommend this book. I got this originally for insight on raising my kid and creating an environment that supports learning (human connection and play are more important than test prep and work sheets, unsurprisingly), but it also had an impact on me as a teacher. Though I teach high school, it's inspired me to try out some things in the classroom that might help ignite students' interest in actually learning vs. getting good grades. This book is pretty common sense, but still worth the read. The author is pretty realistic, and aside from the fact that after turning an outdoor frog (or was it a toad?) into a pet for a while, she released it back into the wild, she has some good ideas and advice. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on April 19, 2019 by Erica

  • The Importance of Being Little in order to be A Contributing Big
Format: Kindle
After working in the field of Occupational Therapy for forty years, the last twenty involving from - "being very little" persons, to - "being very big little" persons. My love and interest is in the processes observable in the field of “developmental delay”. Captured in this label or scope, are areas of sensory, motor, perpetual, auditory-language and emotional processing, with differences of various extremes. The common denominator appeared to be that these people are extremely intelligent, intuitive, motivated, cooperative and with unusual initiatives. The common interruption and violation……… the education systems, the educationists, the politics and stupidity of people who don’t understand children and their development until death. In her, book , Erika Christakis has presented her experiences, insights and tremendous knowledge and understanding, as well as the simple solutions possible to help little people grow to be fulfilled,self-fufilling and contributing adults. Jennifer Lewkowski Occupational Therapist - ResultsOT Dip.OT : Jerusalem. Advanced Dip.OT: Neurosciences :Johannesburg. South Africa. Tel: +27 11 887 5945 Email:[email protected] ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2016 by J. S. Lewkowski

  • Interesting read
Format: Hardcover
This is a great book for parents wondering how to choose a preschool program that will encourage their children to play and think. It's thought-provoking material even if you don't agree with all of it. The one thing I disagreed with is the casual distrust and dislike of technology that appears throughout the book. The author stops short of claiming that technology is harmful, but mostly seems to think that it's sad compared to how she thinks a real childhood should look. There's a confusing passage on how letting your kids play videogames at night will make their childhood inauthentic, whatever that means. Another part talks about how ingenious it was for kids to throw water balloons spiked with urine at others, and on the next page we're told how far the American childhood has declined now that kids are playing with iPad apps. (One wonders if the quiet child who just wanted to be left alone rather than be hit with a water balloon would also feel nostalgic about that part of a traditional childhood.) As someone who hated even being hit with snowballs, but LOVED technology for as long as I can remember, I found the author's attitude to show a lack of understanding for children whose ideal childhood differs from her own. There's a lot of advice throughout about listening to what children want because they know best, but apparently that advice doesn't extend to trusting that children are interested in technology for a reason. Parents should let their kids take more risks outdoors, because bone fractures are not such a big deal - but with technology we should hold back because we haven't studied it enough yet. For those of us who will always remember the magic of discovering and learning how to operate every single function of the first electronic alarm clock, remote, or handheld game we got our hands on as kids, it's disheartening to listen to someone who doesn't understand that some kids find technology not just useful but also inspiring. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2016 by Ciani

  • Being little is important and so is this book
Format: Hardcover
Erika Christakis writes with passion, scholarship, heart and humor. The Importance of Being Little offers insights about how young kids think and learn and offers ideas on how we can vastly improve pre-school. Christakis is a fierce advocate for PLAY and through the research she sites, shows how young kids think and learn. Her writing style is completely appealing, full of stories that hold our interest. This book is a great read for early childhood educators ( bless their souls! ), young parents and grandparents and all who care about the next generation. I hope The Importance of Being Little is the first of many from an original and well informed thinker. I look forward to the next scholarly book, or even a novel, by this author...she is that good! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 19, 2016 by John Carroll

  • Great read
Format: Paperback
Great book. Fast delivery
Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2025 by Judy New

  • Absolutely brilliant!
Format: Paperback
As an early childhood educator, I found Christakis’ insights to be invaluable. Her research is solid and vast.
Reviewed in the United States on October 20, 2024 by Angela

  • Taking the Drudgery Out of Preschool
Format: Kindle
As the author of a parenting book that takes the same approach toward preschoolers (Smart Love: The Comprehensive Guide to Understanding, Regulating, and Enjoying Your Child) I was thrilled with this book. The book presents a point of view that we desperately need to hear more of, namely letting children be children and giving them all of childhood to grow up in. Preschool should be about igniting children's curiosity and love of learning and school and not about pressuring them and making them resistant and dull. Christakis offers both practical and theoretical support for this position. A must read!Smart Love: The Comprehensive Guide to Understanding, Regulating and Enjoying Your Child ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 10, 2016 by Martha H. Pieper, PhD

  • Great concepts- important message
Format: Paperback
Great concept and important message- but kind of hard to read and stick with it.
Reviewed in the United States on January 30, 2026 by Cheryl J

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