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Not Your Mother's Tough Love Shampoo & Conditioner (2-Pack) - 10 fl oz - Helps Strengthen Hair, Repair Hair, and Condition Damaged Hair

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Features

  • BONDING SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER: Hair shampoo and conditioner help maintain hair strength and repair hair while deeply nourishing; Velvety peony and musk scent
  • MADE WITH ACTIVE BONDING TECHNOLOGY: Shampoo and conditioner formulated with Active Bonding Technology ingredients that penetrate hair to protect hair bonds from initial hair breakage and repair broken bonds from severe hair damage; Best for damaged hair
  • MADE WITH GOOD VIBES ONLY: Sulfate-free, paraben-free, dye-free, gluten-free, cruelty-free, and vegan; Safe for all hair types, including natural hair and colored hair
  • USE TOGETHER: Apply Tough Love Shampoo to wet hair, work into a rich lather, and rinse thoroughly; Follow with Tough Love Conditioner and gently massage into scalp for 2-3 minutes, then rinse thoroughly
  • NOT YOUR MOTHER'S HAIR PRODUCTS: Try other Not Your Mother's hair products like dry shampoo, hair stylers, hair treatments, and other shampoos and conditioners

Product Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 1.85 x 3.7 x 8.75 inches; 1.5 Pounds


Item model number ‏ : ‎ 13511


Manufacturer ‏ : ‎ Demert Brands, Inc.


Country of Origin ‏ : ‎ USA


Best Sellers Rank: #81,492 in Beauty & Personal Care (See Top 100 in Beauty & Personal Care) #891 in Shampoo & Conditioner Sets


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Customer Reviews: 4.0 4.0 out of 5 stars 105 ratings


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  • Great for Fine Hair
Purchased as part of the whole NYM’s bond repair line. I have fine and thin hair, so many of the other bonding lines are too heavy for my hair type. This product is AWESOME! I use the entire system 1x/wk and for the 2 days following a trip to the salon. Too frequent use will cause protein overload, leading to dryness and more breakage, so more is not better with this. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on June 18, 2025 by Five Quarter Sephora

  • Love it
Bottles leaked so not a full bottle
Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2025 by Whitney

  • Good for thick hair
Good shampoo for both my daughter’s long wavy hair and my straight medium hair. We both have thick hair and this shampoo and conditioner work well.
Reviewed in the United States on July 1, 2025 by Mwood Mama

  • Smells like vomit
I like the way it works but it smells like vomit. I had to get rid of it. If the company somehow makes it smell good I will buy it again.
Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2025 by Meredith Moran

  • Shampoo leaked
When the package arrived one of the items was open and had leaked all over!!!
Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2025 by Sarah weaver Sarah weaver

  • Love this brand!
I have not yet met a ‘Not Your Mothers’ product that I have not been happy with!!! Shampoos, conditioners, and styling products! One of my favorite brands!!!
Reviewed in the United States on June 3, 2025 by Amazon Customer

  • Great combo
This shampoo and conditioner is great. I used it on my somewhat damaged hair and it really cleaned well, and the conditioner made it feel softer and more moisturized. Ita definitely a keeper.
Reviewed in the United States on January 19, 2025 by Antonia S

  • Good Shampoo, Bad Bottle
I love Not Your Mother’s and have used their products on and off since I was in high school. I have seen bonding haircare products everywhere lately and was excited to try their take on it. I love that they’re sold in a pair so I can try both the shampoo and conditioner. When the bottles arrived I noticed that the lids had popped open on both. There was a bit of a soapy mess to clean up, but most of the shampoo was still in the bottle. I thought it wasn’t too big of a deal and cleaned it up. Then when I went to try the shampoo I had the lid fall apart on me. The part of the lid that flips up but shouldn’t come off fell off in my hand. Way too much shampoo spilled out with it, so it was a bit of a waste. I know this is a common bottle shape these days, but the lid could be improved to open and fall apart less easily. The shampoo itself lathered well and cleaned well. I like how my hair looked and felt when using it. The conditioner is a little trickier. After the first use my hair felt a bit gross, like it had been coated in something. I gave it a second chance and rinsed it very thoroughly. It took awhile to rinse out, but my hair felt great when it dried this time. It was very soft and silky. I like it. The set has a slight perfume scent, which isn’t bad but not my favorite. Overall, I like the set for its good results. I’d get it again. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 3, 2024 by Nicky Nicky

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