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No One Gets to Fall Apart: A Memoir – A New York Times Notable Book of Intergenerational Trauma, Race, and Understanding

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A New York Times Notable Book A Best Book of the Year — NPR, Esquire, ElleFinalist for the Writers’ League of Texas Book AwardLonglisted for Reading the West“Brilliant . . . stunning . . . deserves a place alongside modern classics like Jeannette Walls’s The Glass Castle and Tara Westover’s Educated.” — Susannah Cahalan, New York Times bestselling author of Brain on Fire “A triumph.” — Lorrie Moore, author of I Am Homeless If This Is Not My HomeOn a highway in Houston, Texas, Sarah LaBrie’s mother was found screaming at passing cars, terrified she would be murdered by invisible assailants. The diagnosis of schizophrenia that followed compelled Sarah to rethink her childhood, marked at turns by violence and all-consuming closeness in their complex mother-daughter relationship. Digging into the events that led to her mother’s break, Sarah traces her family history of generational trauma and mental illness, from the dysphoria that plagued her great-grandmother, a granddaughter of slaves, to her own experience with depression as a scholarship student at Brown. At the same time, she navigates a decades-long fixation on a novel she can’t finish but can't abandon, her complicated feelings about her white partner, and a fraught friendship colored by betrayal.Spanning the globe from Houston’s Third Ward to Paris to Tallinn and New York to Los Angeles, No One Gets to Fall Apart is an unflinching chronicle of one Black woman's attempt to forge a new future through a better understanding of the past. Intellectually fierce and emotionally raw, this is a story of inheritance, identity, and the memories we must confront to survive.A Complicated Mother-Daughter Bond: Navigating a relationship defined by both "all-consuming closeness" and violence in the shadow of a devastating schizophrenia diagnosis.Searching for an Origin: Tracing a family history of mental illness from a great-grandmother, the granddaughter of slaves, through the author’s own depression as a scholarship student at Brown.A Black Woman’s Coming of Age: An unflinching journey from Houston’s Third Ward to the Ivy League and beyond, grappling with race, class, and the struggle to write her own future.For Readers of Educated and The Glass Castle: A stunning literary memoir that blends intellectual rigor with raw, personal narrative to explore the ties that bind and the moments that break us. Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper


Publication date ‏ : ‎ October 22, 2024


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Print length ‏ : ‎ 224 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0063280728


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 24


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.75 x 8.25 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #539,192 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #49 in Schizophrenia (Books) #146 in Sociological Study of Medicine #314 in Dysfunctional Families (Books)


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  • PHENOMENAL! DAUNTING! SPLENDID!!!
While “No One Gets To Fall Apart” is an excellent and easy read, this multi-dimensional masterpiece is like a vintage wine meant to be savored. Not since stories like ”I Know Why the Cage Bird Sings” have I been so impressed, impacted, inspired, and intrigued by a memoir; especially a first one. This remarkably blunt gem provides a compelling and piercing glimpse into the bumps, bruises, battle scars, dysfunction, and resilience of a gifted daughter of a schizophrenic mother and absent father. This chillingly personal and absorbing account beckoned me to question my own frailties and wounds resulting from my chaotic and oft tumultuous life living with an alcoholic mother. Like the author, I also gained some clarity and insight, as well as shed some guilt and shame. This superbly scripted story of an imperfect journey is a MUST READ! It epitomizes a life examined and the beauty and revelation that only comes through deep reflection, truth, grace, and growth. This is a BOOK TO BE CELEBRATED! Hopefully, we’ll hear from this author again soon. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 4, 2024 by Enaj Leotaud

  • Impeccable
Beautifully shaped and told, and I found it to be a consoling mental landscape to hang out with. Life may be messy, but the artistry is impeccable.
Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2024 by L.A. Reader

  • Good, but not great
My mom had schizophrenia, so naturally I was interested in this book. I felt that the author wrote too much about this Benjamin person. I don’t see how it relates to the subject matter of the book. Also, I found myself not liking the author too much,especially the way she used the silent treatment, refusing to take calls, etc. However, I related to her fear of going crazy like her mother, her hopes that her mother would get better, etc. Unlike her I had a “normal” mother until I was 10 and I grieved for her like died. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 10, 2024 by Snuffles1

  • Beautifully written, thought-provoking memoir
This is a gripping, fast-paced, beautifully written memoir. It tells a tragic story, but Labrie's tone is ultimately hopeful. Highly recommend.
Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2024 by Kevin R.

  • Impeccably written, brilliant & essential
This is one of those books that you not only adore, but also you know you’ll return to for the rest of your life to help you get through. I’m so grateful for this book because it helps me feel less alone.
Reviewed in the United States on November 1, 2024 by Alissa Nutting

  • This memoir is the definition of narrative transportation
Reading every page of "No One Gets to Fall Apart" made me feel like I was transported into and completely immersed in Sarah's life and experiences. The way Sarah writes about the many moments of trying to understand and process mental illness in her family while processing her own emotions and responses is so relatable and gave words to similar moments I've had in my own life. I also appreciated that while reading this, I never felt like I knew what was going to happen next and yet in the end I felt like it all tied together. I don't often get audiobooks but I would really like to hear the audiobook now. Thank you, Sarah, for writing this compelling memoir. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2024 by Skylar Bayer

  • Illuminating and well developed
This memoir leaves you questioning your own relationship to what is "normal". Beautifully written, you can't help but feel drawn in to the author's life choices. Highly recommend!
Reviewed in the United States on October 28, 2024 by Alejandro

  • Captivating Memoir
Powerful, poignant, and profound writing!
Reviewed in the United States on October 28, 2024 by chiara

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