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The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The authors of No-Drama Discipline and The Yes Brain explain the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures in this pioneering, practical book. “Simple, smart, and effective solutions to your child’s struggles.”—Harvey Karp, M.D. In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight, and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson offer a revolutionary approach to child rearing with twelve key strategies that foster healthy brain development, leading to calmer, happier children. The authors explain—and make accessible—the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures. The “upstairs brain,” which makes decisions and balances emotions, is under construction until the mid-twenties. And especially in young children, the right brain and its emotions tend to rule over the logic of the left brain. No wonder kids throw tantrums, fight, or sulk in silence. By applying these discoveries to everyday parenting, you can turn any outburst, argument, or fear into a chance to integrate your child’s brain and foster vital growth. Complete with age-appropriate strategies for dealing with day-to-day struggles and illustrations that will help you explain these concepts to your child, The Whole-Brain Child shows you how to cultivate healthy emotional and intellectual development so that your children can lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives. “[A] useful child-rearing resource for the entire family . . . The authors include a fair amount of brain science, but they present it for both adult and child audiences.”—Kirkus Reviews “Strategies for getting a youngster to chill out [with] compassion.”—The Washington Post “This erudite, tender, and funny book is filled with fresh ideas based on the latest neuroscience research. I urge all parents who want kind, happy, and emotionally healthy kids to read The Whole- Brain Child. This is my new baby gift.”—Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Reviving Ophelia and The Shelter of Each Other “Gives parents and teachers ideas to get all parts of a healthy child’s brain working together.”—Parent to Parent Read more


Publisher ‏ : ‎ Random House Publishing Group; Illustrated edition (September 11, 2012)


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Paperback ‏ : ‎ 192 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 91


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 5.6 ounces


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.19 x 0.44 x 8 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #164 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #1 in Medical Child Psychology #1 in Popular Child Psychology #2 in Parenting Boys


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  • If you get only one book ever on child development, let it be this one.
Having read about half a dozen or so books specifically on childhood development and another dozen or so on stoicism and other mental health practices, I've concluded that this is THE authoritative book that every parent should read at least once. First off, the way it is written is very casual and familiar, which makes it very accessible to anyone who is even remotely literate. Second, the concepts featured are easy to understand and explained in a a very succinct way. Third, it isn't a laundry list of techniques; its a topical analysis of the most effective methods on how to connect with your children emotionally and logically. And fourth (a big one for me), this isn't a "how you're screwed up mentally, so fix yourself first" book. Any parent can read this book and pick up the techniques and apply them immediately. There's no "blame yourself first, then address the issue" cathartic flagellation message here. As I worked my way through the book, I tried the techniques on my 2.5 year old and it was pretty much miraculous. I already had a good relationship with her, but connecting on a different level was rewarding as a parent. It helped me help her work through tantrums, difficult or scary situations, and find ways to effectively problem solve on her own. This book doesn't just empower us parents, it empowers our children too, which should be the end goal of every parent. The book is a quick read (I finished it in about a week working full time and with 4 kids in the household), so its very accessible. The content is immediately useful and non-judgemental. As my review title suggests, if there were only one book us parents could read about child development and the role we as parents play in that development, it needs to be this book. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on March 29, 2023 by Ed B.

  • Fantastic Book
Fantastic book to help understand little minds (and actually, our own as well) better, and how to engage/act/react, and just have reminders and tools to learn and pay attention and work at certain things in a better, or different, way. A wonderful book to help embrace it all
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on May 12, 2023 by Amazon Customer

  • Brain science explained easily for parents
Actual brain scientists, who are also parents, wrote this book. They wrote it to where anyone can understand and relate. If you want to understand more about your child and learn ways to help nurture them to be emotionally intelligent, read this book!
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on May 3, 2023 by Kimberlee R McDowell Kimberlee R McDowell

  • How and why "the moments you are just trying to survive are actually opportunities to help your child to thrive"
As a father of three sons and a daughter and one of the grandfathers of their ten children, I can certainly understand what Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson have in mind while discussing moments of extreme stress for parents when their children become infuriating and intolerable. That is why I was intrigued by their explanation of the power of the "whole-brain approach" during all manner of touchpoints in parent-child relationships. That power is especially helpful in "the moments you are just trying to survive" because it creates "opportunities to help your child to thrive." In fact, the 12 strategies that Siegal and Bryson recommend can be effective for almost [begin italics] anyone [end italics] who has direct and frequent contact with children, including teachers, coaches, and clergy as well as parents and other relatives. In fact, with only minor modification, I think they can be beneficial to interactive relationships between and among adults, especially to those within a workplace. "What's great about this survive-and-thrive approach is that you don't have to try to carve out special time to help your children thrive. You can use [begin italics] all [end italics] of the interactions you share - the stressful, angry ones as well as the miraculous, adorable ones - as opportunities to help them become the responsible, caring, capable people you want them to be. That's what this book is about: using those everyday moments with your kids to help them reach their true potential." These are among the passages that caught my eye: o Integration of Various Mental Domains (Pages 6-10) o Get in the Flow: Navigating the Waters Between Chaos and Rigidity (10-13) o Left Brain, Right Brain: An Introduction (15-16) o Two Halves Make a Whole: Combining the Left and the Right (18-22) o The Mental Staircase: Integrating the Upstairs and Downstairs Brain (38-41) o Integrating Ourselves: Using Our Own Mental Staircase (64-65) o Integrating Implicit and Explicit: Assembling the Puzzle Pieces of the Mind (76-86) o Mindsight and the Wheel of Awareness (93-97) o Integrating Ourselves: Looking at Our Own Wheel of Awareness (117-118) o Laying the Groundwork for Connection: Creating Positive Mental Models (125-127) o Cultivating a "Yes" State of Mind: Helping Kids Be Receptive to Relationships (129-133) o Integrating Ourselves: Making Sense of Our Own Story (143-144) Note: I urge you to check out another of Siegal's books, Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation, in which Mindsight and the Wheel of Awareness are among the subjects discussed. Readers will appreciate Siegal and Bryson's skillful use of "What You Can Do" sections throughout their narrative that serve several purposes, notably focusing on key points while suggesting specific initiatives to apply what has been learned from the given material. For example, "What You Can Do: Helping Your Child Work from Both Sides of the Brain" (Pages 22-33). Dozens of eminently appropriate illustrations were created by Tuesday Mourning. However, no brief commentary such as mine could possibly do full justice to the scope and depth of what Siegal and Bryson cover, with eloquence as well as rigor. I have elected not to list the twelve (12) strategies because I think they are best revealed in context, within the narrative. I do presume to suggest that those who are about to read this book begin and then frequently review later the "Whole-Brain Ages and Stages" material (on Pages 154-168) because it creates a wide and deep context, a frame of reference, for the abundance of information, insights, and recommendations in the six preceding chapters and Conclusion, "Bringing It All Together. " This book need not be read straight through (although I prefer that approach) but it should certainly be consulted frequently, hence the importance of "Whole-Brain Ages and Stages" and the Index as well as (I hope) passages of special importance that have been highlighted. I also presume to suggest that Daniel Siegal and Tina Payne Bryson's brilliant book will be most valuable to whole-brain readers. In it, they provide what they characterize in the Introduction as "an antidote to parenting and academic approaches that overemphasize achievement and perfection at any cost." It is imperative that everyone involved directly (and even indirectly) with the development if children "understand some basics about the young brain that [they] are helping to grow and develop." ... show more
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on October 9, 2012 by Robert Morris

  • Not a big “reader”?? YOU CAN READ THIS!
Let me start off by saying I’m not a huge “reader”. I don’t have the greatest attention span and I’ve never been one to grab a book for fun. I finished this book in 3 days. The desire to be a better parent for my baby was definitely a good push, but i genuinely enjoyed reading this. My husband commented on how fast I was moving through it. It made me laugh a couple of times and the authors made the material extremely easy to digest. I LOVE that this is backed by science. I love that in the times where i am exercising these skills in front of others, if I ever get a question i am able to share facts that I’ve learned from this book. I recommend this for all parents, care-takers, and teachers!! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on March 4, 2023 by Amazon Customer

  • Must Read!
Every parent should read it! Extremely insightful and well written guidance on how to help my kids better integrate (and good words for me too!).
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on April 5, 2023 by Kristin

  • One of my favorite books of all time
One of my favorite books of all time. Just a well-written, helpful book.
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on March 27, 2023 by Taylor

  • A must read for anyone who interacts with kids
This book is written in an easy to read way while also explaining neurobiology and ways to help nurture children. Whether you are a teacher, therapist, parent or caretaker, I think this book is vital.
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on March 24, 2023 by Vicky

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