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BDSM: The Ultimate Handbook for the Dom and Sub. Training for Pleasure: Training for Pleasure (Pain and Pleasure)

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Have you ever thought about indulging in BDSM, but don’t know where to start?Have you ever wanted to pleasure your partner while assuming dominance over them, but didn't know where to begin? Are you someone who’s been curious about exploring kink, but don’t know where to begin?Well, you’re in luck, for this book will tell you everything that you need to know to have a basic understanding of BDSM.With this book, you’ll be able to understand BDSM for what it is, not just as something that’s been discussed in 50 shades of Grey, but realistic, actual understanding of this subject. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding BDSM and kink culture, and sometimes, it’s hard to find the truth, and what you should and shouldn't be doing. But, you’re in luck, for this book will tell you everything you need to know about BDSM, and how to pleasure your partner. Buy It Now Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (June 4, 2018)


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Paperback ‏ : ‎ 82 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1720691959


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 52


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 4.3 ounces


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.17 x 9 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #618,031 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #893 in General Sexual Health #1,858 in Sex & Sexuality


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  • BDSM... Broken down to easy steps.
I liked how the author is taking this lifestyle and breaking it down slowly. They are shorter books , so easy to read and understand. However, there are a few grammatical errors and spelling issues. Nothing that stops the premise, but i'm a nut with this kind of stuff. Overall, good reading! Thanks!
Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2023 by Rod Shaw

  • Informational
Wish there was a little more info on contracts, overall good general coverage for beginner information. Recommended to a friend.
Reviewed in the United States on June 23, 2021 by Bambi

  • Good for the very basics.
This is good for people who are just getting into this lifestyle. It covers the very basics. Not exactly for anyone who has experience unless they need a refresher due to incorrect learning/training. I took a star away because the editing makes some sentences hard to read.
Reviewed in the United States on August 3, 2020 by Kimberly Doolin

  • Good for a general gist, bad for detailed information
This book is not well edited. There were hundreds of typos, grammatical errors, and even times where the word Dom and Sub have been switched. I also thought the book had gender stereotypes. Often it would use masculine pronouns when talking about the Dom, assuming that the Dom is going to be a man, which is often not the case. I also think some of the tips for women were sexists. As a person just starting out in BDSM, I did learn some helpful things from this book. There is still some value in reading it. However I would suggest that others use additional resources when learning about BDSM. This book is like an introduction pamphlet, good for getting the general word out, but doesn't have a lot of hard information. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on November 3, 2020 by Lauren Ann Peters

  • Very informative
This book gives a good overview without flooding lots of information. Came here to get more information to relay to new subs since im a newish dom.
Reviewed in the United States on August 11, 2020 by Eric Turner

  • Great
Excellent well written straight to the point and very up to date. Truly well thought out and educational. I would read it again
Reviewed in the United States on September 10, 2021 by Kindle Customer

  • Good beginners guide
Very good info to begin with and awesome point of views for both aspects very good entry into this world
Reviewed in the United States on August 13, 2019 by Zachery Kelley

  • Informative but filled with typos.
Very informative book. An excellent primer for newbies to the scene and talks at great length about consent, which is very good.
Reviewed in the United States on August 19, 2021 by K Meyer

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