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- Condition
- New
- Dimensions
- 5.43 x 0.48 x 8.5 in
- Weight
- 8 oz
- Publisher
- Jessica Kingsley Publishers
- Publication date
- February 21, 2023
- Language
- English
- Print length
- 192 pages
Description
How do I know if I'm actually sexual? How do I come out as asexual? What kinds of relationship can I have as an ace person? If you are looking for answers to these questions, Cody is here to help. Within these pages lie all the advice you need as a questioning ace teen. Tackling everything from what asexuality is, the asexual spectrum and tips on coming out, to intimacy, relationships, acephobia and finding joy, this guide will help you better understand your asexual identity alongside deeply relatable anecdotes drawn from Cody's personal experience. Whether you are ace, demi, gray-ace or not sure yet, this book will give you the courage and confidence to embrace your authentic self and live your best ace life. Read more
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| Publisher | Jessica Kingsley Publishers |
|---|---|
| Publication date | February 21, 2023 |
| Language | English |
| Print length | 192 pages |
| ISBN-10 | 1839972629 |
| ISBN-13 | 21 |
| Item Weight | 8 ounces |
| Reading age | 12 - 18 years |
| Dimensions | 5.43 x 0.48 x 8.5 inches |
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Top Amazon Reviews
Great if you're Questioning & or want to better understand Asexuality
Format: Paperback
I really enjoyed this book as a big introduction to Asexuality. I'm in my late 20s & have been questioning if I'm somewhere on the Asexuality spectrum. This is great for anyone who needs an introduction to Asexuality, especially those questioning who need a starting point. It pushed me a bit to accepting that I probably am Asexual. I really enjoyed it, helped me understand some things about myself. Made me cry a few times or almost from things that made me feel seen & understood
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Reviewed in the United States on October 6, 2025 by Kas B.
Excellent read!
Format: Paperback
Whether you are Ace or not, this book is very informational and it’s written in an easy to understand way. Cody also weaves their own personal experiences throughout the book and it’s very inviting for you to explore who you are.
Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2024 by Kerri Michaud-Bagley
Best. Borrow. Ever.
Format: Paperback
While following the author's online content before their book was released was an eye opener to the depths of asexuality and that they way that things work is not one sole way, but in your own way that is yours to discover. Personally related to the book than the online content of the author.
Reviewed in the United States on June 10, 2026 by Dustin
Wonderful!
Format: Paperback
Asexuality is often called the invisible orientation and is widely misunderstood. This book does an amazing job of not only explaining what asexuality is, but more importantly, what it is not. Written in a down to earth, friendly tone, the author uses real life situations and experiences to help the reader understand the many facets of asexuality and gives those who are on a questioning journey of their own helpful suggestions to guide them towards finding those answers. This is a book that encourages conversations and should absolutely be read by everyone.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2023 by Kitsune
Such a great resource for ace and questioning folks
Format: Paperback
This book is for people of all ages who are ace, questioning, allies, parents, and all people who could use some advice on how to navigate a world filled with societal norms. I Am Ace contains clear definitions and information that is detailed without being dense. Sprinkled throughout are delightful, helpful tidbits from the author’s own life as a queer, ace human. One of my favorite things is how the author talks about the purpose of labels and micro labels. If you follow Cody on social media, you've probably heard him say, "Labels are tools, not tests." By clearly defining labels and micro labels, he helps ace and questioning folks understand themselves better, have language to talk about their experiences, and release the pressure of getting it "right" or thinking a label is irrevocable. This book may be geared towards a person who is questioning or new to their asexuality, but it would be so helpful for many kinds of readers. Another one of my favorite sections was where Cody talked about negotiating consent with partners. Imagine a world where we all had open, honest, (probably uncomfortable), conversations with partners about boundaries around intimacy. Imagine we had those conversations regularly, because boundaries and desires change, often moment to moment. His ideas and tools for how to have these ongoing discussions are brilliant and immediately useful for anyone in a relationship. (And not just sexual or romantic relationships.) The best thing about this book is that it affirms that asexuality is just another human experience. Being ace doesn't mean you're broken. It doesn't mean your boundaries are less important than a partner's. It doesn't mean you're a liability. It doesn't mean that you are less than anyone else. Ace people are whole, awesome, fully formed humans. Everything about this book uplifts that idea. The author gives practical, actionable advice and enriches the information with stories from his own experience. Cody is a cheerleader, an educator, and an example of one ace person living their best life. I Am Ace is informative, affirming, empowering, and -- above all -- JOYFUL! I felt warmly educated, uplifted, and validated. I hope every ace person who reads it feels seen and cared for.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2023 by Tracie R.
What a great book, for anyone who is ace or an ally
Format: Paperback
This book is exactly what I needed to explain exactly how I feel. Not many books have explained how it feels to be ace Luke Cody the author did. I love this book so much I am buying it. I read it from the library and really feel like it is a great book to explain everything about identity, and so many aspects of being ace. I thought I knew myself pretty well till I read this book and realized labels are just guidelines and this really helps me. I think a great book for anyone to read. Thank you so much Cody for writing this book!
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Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2023 by Amazon Customer
Friendly Reading
Format: Paperback
A bold and beautiful combination of personal experience and factual explanation from an older asexual, specifically one who was already familiar with the LGBTQ community for years past. Of the few asexual books published, I Am Ace stands out as an engaging and friendly introduction to the asexuality umbrella and gently leads the reader into new concepts while simultaneously providing reassurances that everyone experiences the world in their own way. The author doesn't try to serve as an authority on asexuality, but merely as a fellow asexual individual who followed his own path to discovery.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 15, 2023 by Katie Nelson
Asexuality is valid and you are seen
Format: Paperback
I Am Ace is a fantastic book for aces and their partners, families and friends, questioning folks and other humans In their world. Cody walks through being Ace in the world, compulsory sexuality expectations, attractions vs. actions, exploring asexuality as a feature not a flaw, aces in relationships, and more. The book works hard on normalizing the presence of asexuality.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 26, 2023 by KC 667