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Fuel : What Makes the Narcissist Function?

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Are you involved with someone whose behaviour makes no sense to you? Does this person treat you with kindness one moment and spiteful hatred the next? Does this individual flirt with others despite being in a relationship with you? Is he or she boastful, arrogant and always fishing for compliments? Does this person seem to revel in provoking other people, angering them or upsetting them, yet you cannot work out why this person acts in this way? The answers lie in this book. The driving force behind these strange and upsetting behaviours all comes down to fuel. Read about what fuel is, how it makes that person feel, why they need it, how they get it and what your role is in supplying them with fuel. Learn all about fuel and you will question his or her behaviour no longer and you will be armed with information to do something about it and protect yourself and those you care about. Read more


Publisher ‏ : ‎ Insight Books; 1st edition (December 2, 2015)


Publication date ‏ : ‎ December 2, 2015


Language ‏ : ‎ English


File size ‏ : ‎ 2240 KB


Simultaneous device usage ‏ : ‎ Unlimited


Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled


Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported


Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled


X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled


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  • Dear HG: Did my 5 stars add to your fuel supply?
WHERE DO I START?? How about with your totally undeserved sense of entitlement. WHO, besides you, in your own debilitated mind, says you are entitled to anything? OK, so you think you are smart. What do you have to prove that aside from conning others to believe you are smart? You tell us that at your workplace, you conned management into believing you were smart by taking credit for what others actually conceived. You tell us you are smart because you can con others in your personal spheres into believing you are smart. And worse still, YOU believe that makes you smart. What a load of crap. You know what you really are: A Fake. A successful fake, to a point, but a fake all the same. You say you can't change how you are. In saying that, I am reminded of a school verse from the past that goes: "Can't couldn't do it because won't wouldn't let it." That is YOU to a "T." You are simply too WEAK, yes WEAK, to fix this fault, yes FAULT in yourself. Oh how much easier it is to go on giving away YOUR fuel (power) to the ghosts of your past (without ever admitting you feel too weak to stop feeding those ghosts), and instead blame others in your present from whom you steal, yes STEAL fuel. Face those ghosts from your past and STOP feeding them your personal fuel such that you then COWARDLY, yes, COWARDLY take fuel from others to replace what you so COWARDLY and WAEKLY gave away to ghosts of your past who DO NOT MATTER ANYMORE! You will NEVER be able to give away enough of yourself (your fuel) to satisfy what YOU think those ghosts continue to demand of you. They, frankly, don't give a carp and NOTHING you can ever do (be it give your fuel away, or now take it from others) will EVER make any difference. So you failed with the ghosts of the past. So what? All that is history you can NEVER change. Particularly NOT by stealing others fuel in the present in any kind of misguided attempt to make you feel some measure of strength in your ongoing (but totally pointless) attempts to prove to the ghosts of your past that you are still better than them. Who, but sides you, cares?? NOBODY. As the saying goes: "Let the dead past buried the dead." Good advice. Move the eff on! Starting now. STOP thinking you can injure those in your present and that, somehow, will pay off the debts of the past. Why do you suppose you have to repeat your weak and sophomoric behaviourwithnew conquests time and again? Because you know what you are doing is wrong. You WILL grow old, you WILL die. We all do. If you CONTINUE along this same path, I can't wait till the time you find yourself, as we all will someday, alone and old and decrepit and weak. WHO are you going to charm then, huh? You will have burned all your bridges and WHO do you think, reasonably, is going to care about you then? You'd better start thinking about that time to come because judging from your age now, you are not that far from it. Relationships that matter, and people who continue to care about you when your looks and your health are gone take DECADES to produce. WHAT are you doing for ANYBODY besides yourself so that they care about you when you have lost your looks, your health, and possibly even the full strength of your intellect. That you haven't done any of that to date; I mean trying to rectify what it is about your narcissistic ways you claim are too hard to try to rectify only shows HOW TRULY WEAK YOU ARE. NO OBSERVABLE STRENGTH OF CHARACTER IN YOU, YOU WUSS, IF YOU DONT BEGIN TO EFFECT CHANGE NOW!! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on January 6, 2016 by Deb Lindstrom

  • HG TUDOR IS THE GOD OF THIS SUBJECT!
NO ONE can explain this better Nor Help You More than HG Tudor. What’s hard to understand is this, A Narcissist is so selfish and self serving, one would wonder why a self claimed Narcissist would not only write about his expertise, but be willing to help others understand what you are dealing with! Well that’s exactly what HG does and more. He is the only one to go to for the full and complete understanding of Narcissist’s and your interaction, role with them. If you are an Empath, you can and will be drawn to these individuals. HG equips you with knowledge, and complete understanding as to invite you into the mind of a Narcissist and Understand What They Experience and What They Think and Why They Do What They Do To You. Here’s the kicker, HG IS SO GOOD, if for any reason you need help with this as it turns into an addiction for many Empaths, He, better than any psychiatrist or mental health professional that I’ve seen in healthcare (healthcare is the profession I work in) that can help you not only deal with a narcissist, he can save you from them too and has many tools to do so. His writing is unbelievable, his honesty is justified with his knowledge, first hand experience and transparency that he offers in his writings, articles included if you sign up for his mailing list for free with Amazing offers and content. And he offers one on one coaching. Forget any other type of resource HG is the go to. I’ve not been paid to say this. I have this book which blew me away, as all of his writings do. HG is a gift for Empaths, and sadly the person to expose those Narcissist’s that have a mind set that does Not make sense to the person involved with them. HG Tudor is the one who can save you from your grief by offering you tools of understanding and truly helping you if you need it. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on August 23, 2020 by RJBC

  • If there is a narcissist in your life, in my opinion, FUEL is the first book you should read
I would highly recommend that "Fuel" be the very first book anyone reads on the subject of narcissism if they have the misfortune of having to deal with a narcissist. You have to understand what "fuel" is to a narcissist, before you can ever understand why they do the horrible things that they do. They live for it, it's the first thing they think about when they get up in the morning, according to Tudor, and they will scheme every waking minute to figure out how they can get the highest amount of it. He explains that there is positive fuel and negative fuel. Positive fuel is "praising them," telling them how beautiful or handsome they are, telling them how smart they are, and things of that nature, which the average person could probably deal with if they knew that is what they are after, but .... WOE be unto you if they don't get enough positive fuel, because then they will require negative fuel, and this is the horrific part. They get negative fuel in a way that is very similar to sadists. They get "fuel" from hurting their victims, by demeaning them, by falsely accusing them, by crazy making, and sometimes even by physical violence, but most of the narcs I know, seem to enjoy mentally and emotionally abusing their victims the most. If you live with a narcissist, you know exactly what I am talking about. This book WILL help you understand them. They do not act like or think like or have the values of "normal" people, and if you don't understand that, and understand what fuel is to them, you way will be much harder. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 16, 2018 by Just Me

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